Adversities are a part and parcel of every individual's life. Here's how you can take control of the situation while still being calm and proving to be a hero to your loved one.
1. Control the situation
For especially those who have girlfriendís with overpowering, dominating behavior patterns, its time to take the situation under control. Boost your morale. You need to build up your self-belief and confidence. Try and make it appear as if you can easily cope up with it.
2. Be Positive, Confident and Optimistic.
You have to be confident to deal with the adversity. Work towards defeating all your hardships. Think about how strong you are, tougher situations that you have dealt with and share them with your partner. Thinking about the good that this predicament is teaching you also boosts your morale.
3. Make your Partner is Comfortable.
Your partnerís ease and comfort should be your foremost priority. You may offer her your jacket when its cold, or your lap as a pillow. Donít let her or your imaginations take over reality. Pacify the fears by talking them out, sharing them with your partner. Soothe them away. Give her confidence and cheer her to fight these situations and weave dreams and hopes for a brighter future.
4. Never Take Credit.
Once you both are out of the long drawn dilemma, reflect on what you both have learnt from it. Be happy to know that you are her hero, never ay it though!