Believing that women choose their men based on age, wealth and looks is one big misconception.
Though these parameters do influence the decisions that women finally make, the underlying truth is that two people attract due to aspects which are not based on physical appearance and materialistic possessions.
There are times when your partner can just sense the level of your masculinity, when she can just read your level of confidence, your strengths and weaknesses. That is attraction at the gut level.
Self-Reliance and Self-Confidence
Remember the wild card while playing poker or any other card game, the card that can turn tables? Well, the wild card that works wonders in attracting your women is your level of self-reliance and self-confidence. There is nothing like you cannot be confident with women. Every man is. You just need to recognize the fact that you CAN be confident with women. It's not that hard to believe. Confidence is a powerful force that can only be tapped by an individual when he chooses to do so.
Some crucial facts about confidence and how you can use it to attract women:
Confidence is nothing but your level of calm and mental strength to deal with tasks in life. It is the extent to which your mind is relaxed too.
A man who is confident does not usually get too anxious or too excited with women around him. He is at ease with them, keeps his calm and doesn't get disturbed when women try and test him.
As long as you look calm and composed, and all up with confidence, you don't need to worry even if you're nervous and jumpy inside.